DESIRE AND BELIEF

Category: law of attraction

  • The Different Views on the Law of Attraction

    Since learning about the Law of Attraction years ago it has changed my life in numerous ways.  I now want to share what I’ve learned and seen with those who are open and have a desire to learn a way to change their life.

    Throughout my readings and studies of the Law of Attraction, I have come across many viewpoints, ideas, tools, and tips on how to make the Law of Attraction work for people in an easy way.

    Although I believe the Law of Attraction is a quite simple concept, putting it into practice for many can be difficult.  For this reason I developed the The Law of Attraction In Depth.

    The Law of Attraction site is a compilation of many viewpoints and ideas that others have had in regards to the Law of Attraction.  It covers a wide range of topics from the Law of Attraction to the Holocaust to tips for easier creation.

    The Law of Attraction was developed to share many viewpoints with the hope of helping people.  It can be found at http://www.lawofattraction777.com

  • Dealing With Difficult People and The Law Of Attraction

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    I am sure I am not the only one that has found myself surrounded by difficult people.  These people can range from a new group you have just been introduced to, to your own family.  The latter I believe is more difficult because they are your family.

    When you are surrounded by these people you may feel negative vibes, hear negative comments, and feel the need to escape.  Those feelings, according to the law of attraction, are your guidance system telling you this is not the right path for you.

    What do you do if it is a new group of people you have been subjected to or if it is your family themselves?  How do you separate yourself from these negative surroundings without offending or burning bridges?

    To answer this we must first look at the Law of Attraction and what it says about these negative people or surroundings.  It is said that by our thoughts we have created these situations.  For me, and for many others I am sure, that is a difficult pill to swallow.  However, if that is the fact we must pay attention to our thoughts prior to interacting with people.

    If we find ourselves in these situations where there may be negativity our thoughts must have led us there.  An example evaluation of these thoughts could be “I hope these people are not unfriendly”  “What if we have nothing in common” or “I hope this family get together was not like the last one.”

    These thoughts have created this negative environment you may find yourself in.  So prior to these events a correction of thought is needed.  An example of corrective thoughts may be “I am so glad my family and I will have great conversations today” or “I am excited to meet these new people and make some positive friends.”

    This way of thinking will encourage a helpful environment in the future, however what if you are in a negative situation now?  What thoughts do you think, what actions do you do, to create a negative environment into a positive one?

    If you find yourself in that situation where you are surrounded by negativity your first thoughts or actions should not be negative, this will just fuel the fire.  You must look for the tiny positives of the situation and many times it may not be the people you are with.

    An example of looking for these positives to focus on and think about may be “I am in a beautiful environment”  “I like the shirt that she is wearing; it is very colorful and vibrant.”  These thoughts of course may not fix any negativity of others, but it is not your job to fix, it is your goal to focus on the positive.  These little thoughts will lead to larger, more positive thoughts.

    If all else fails, separate yourself from the situation.  Go to the bathroom and reframe your thoughts, make a phone call to a positive friend, or leave all together.  I have been in these situations and although the tips seem minimal you will be surprised at how much they help you in your feeling of relief.

    One key point to remember, as mentioned earlier in this article, is to think positive thoughts before going to events and meeting people ahead of time.  The more that can frame your thoughts in a positive manner, the more positive experiences you will have.

  • How To Overcome Procrastination

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    A build up of stress can easily cause anxiety, depression, and many other negative side effects.  These stressors may be unknown consciously; they could be as simple as having to return a phone call that you have put off.

    Many times people don’t realize the effects that procrastination has on the mind and body.  I have found myself many times in the past stressed and could not figure out why.  When I really took a look at those times I realized there were many tiny things that I wanted to get done and just kept putting them off.

    People procrastinate for many reasons.  Perhaps it is a tedious job they have to accomplish, or maybe fear is getting in the way of achieving goals.  With these factors as well as others, that may not be apparent, one can end up with a load of unknown stress.

    This stress can lead to fatigue, depression, and a wondering of what is wrong.  Eventually it becomes a vicious circle of I need to get this done, I am to tired to do it, I will do it later and then it starts all over again.

    This procrastination greatly affects the work of positive thoughts that one desires to attract the things in life that they want.  The law of attraction can be frustrating to many and those many may not be aware that their own procrastination is causing the frustration with the law of attraction.

    To remedy this let’s break down the cycle of procrastination with the teachings of the law of attraction.

    One procrastinates due to inconvenience or any other negative reason.  They do this to protect themselves from discomfort or other negative emotions.

    The Law of Attraction teaches that if you are feeling negative emotions you are in resistance of what you truly desire.

    I think you can see where this may be leading.  You procrastinate to avoid, when if you just got the job done you would feel relief.  This relief would then lead to a positive outlook which would make it much easier to attract the things in life you desire.

    So what should you do?

    Take care of things when they come to you, when you do this, you are acting on inspired action not a chore of some sort.

    If you dread something, focus on the end result of getting it accomplished, is it a good feeling?  Is it something you desire to be achieved?  In many cases, by getting the inspired action done, you will feel a relief.

    As the teachings out there on the Law of Attraction say, reach for that feeling of relief and in many cases that means taking care of things as you are inspired to do so.

  • Focus Wheel By Abraham-Hicks

    Before I learned of the focus wheel I used to teach in others what I called the step-up beliefs.  What I meant by that was choosing a thought that was just one step-up from where the negative belief was.  My theory of teaching this was to create a thought in my clients that they could easily accept.  For example, ” I am fat” to ” I am thin”  was not to believable.  However, I look good in that outfit was.  Looks like I missed the boat copy writing that one huh:)  Here is a video and free download of Abraham-Hicks Focus Wheel

  • Noah St. John’s ” The Great Little Book of Afformations”

    I first discovered Noah St. John after a traumatic occurrence in my life. I was traveling after the trauma and wanted something inspirational to listen to. I went to the local bookstore in the town I was in and when I was looking through all the books on CD there it was, The Great Little Book of Afformations by Noah St. John.

    Of course, never seeing it before I wondered what it was and said what the heck and bought it. It was the one great purchase. Noah St. John brought a new way of looking at affirmations and why they were not working. At that time I needed a fresh perspective; I was not succeeding with affirmations and could not keep my positive thoughts aligned with the Law of Attraction.

    Noah teaches to ask yourself a question or make and “Afformation” instead of an Affirmation. By asking the question your brain automatically starts looking for the answer.

    As far as The Law of Attraction goes, by using Noah St. Johns Afformations it helps to release resistance. By asking the question your brain is looking for the answer, instead of focusing on the negative thought that brought you there in the first place.

    “The Little Great Book of Afformations” is a must-read for anyone who wants to change their life and their thinking patterns.

  • Bob Proctors- 11 Forgotten Laws



    How can you make the Law of Attraction work for you – without getting frustrated? How do those who successfully implement the Law of Attraction do it with such confidence and finesse?

    1. Allow Yourself To Receive

    Just think of your desires and leave it out there, go away, and trust that your cup will be filled with gold coins (or whatever it is you asked for) when the time is right.

    2. Be Patient With Yourself

    Receiving takes time.

    Relax and be patient. Remember that you too, as part of the universe, are also governed by the laws of the universe, and you cannot change the natural development time.

    If you remember this, you will less likely work yourself up into frustration, or worse, push yourself into a downward spiral of negativity.

    3. Support and Educate Yourself

    Coming to the conclusion that the Law of Attraction doesn’t work when all you ever did to educate yourself was watch “The Secret” 19 times (without looking at changing the habits of other areas of your life) is like coming to the conclusion that exercising is not an effective way to lose weight because all you did is run on the treadmill for 2 hours a day (but you’re still stuffing yourself with fried foods and cheesecakes).

    While the Law of Attraction is not an overnight delivery service, it will indeed deliver, if you do your part too!