DESIRE AND BELIEF

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  • Childhood Affecting Future

    childhood affecting futureThe Childhood affecting future theory is denied by some but accepted by most, it is pretty difficult to deny that your upbringing affects your life. The way you were raised and the people in your life greatly impacts who you are today, although those people in your life probably did not mean to the things they said and did left negative childhood imprints.

    Childhood Affecting Future

    Your upbringing affects you in many ways such as:

    • How successful you are
    • The income you make
    • Your self-esteem and confidence
    • The way you relate and treat others
    • It can even affect your weight!

    Luckily you do not have to live this way for the rest of your life stuck in old patterns and beliefs but there is a wrong way and a right way to go about changing the areas of your life that you desire. First, you do not blame the people in your life they were doing the best they could with the resources they had at hand. Now you may not believe that but if you took the time to look at where they came from you will gain great insights into how they treated you. But let’s not waste time on that right now, first let’s find out what your biggest negative childhood imprint is.

    You see once you can identify your number one subconscious success block you can then take the steps to remedy it. Here are some additional ways on how does your upbringing affect your life:

    • Co-dependent
    • You can become stubborn
    • Have difficulty accepting others and yourself
    • You can become and liar or a teller of tales to protect yourself
    • You always have to have something wrong to focus on
    • You can lack money
    • Have trouble with groups and jobs
    • Plus much more

    So how can you fix this? First find out what is holding you back and you do not need to delve into all the areas of your past to do this. In fact there is one free quiz we know of that not only shows you your number one negative block but also shows you how to overcome it. This Mind Movies Natalie Ledwell quiz is called the mental trap quiz it is short and takes less than a minute but it takes the for main success blocks and give you your main one. Is it scarily accurate and can help you move forward by allowing you to quit looking back.

    Many people want to look back and search and search for who did what to whom and that is why I am the way I am. While this may benefit some it is not the cure all if it was people would not need to go to therapy for years on end. Don’t get us wrong here we believe therapy is beneficial but we also believe that focusing on the present to create a brighter future has to be part of the recipe. If you would like to more about childhood affecting future and take the mental trap quiz you can do so by going to the Mind Movies quiz website.

  • Everything You Do Is Right Day

    Everything you do is right dayMarch 16th is Everything You Do is Right Day today a direct opposite to yesterday which was everything you think is Wrong Day. To celebrate this day you get to be right about everything you do, think, and say but don’t let it go to your head!

    National Everything You Do is Right Day

    Being right feels great however it causes discord so often, when you are trying so hard to be right then you are wasting precious energy. The late Wayne Dyer talks about the EGO as Edging God Out and when you try to be right that is exactly what you are doing. That being said this is a wonderful day for you self-esteem, embrace this day and use it to believe in yourself. When you do what is right for yourself and others this day can be a wonderful day of blessings.

    Quotes on Being Right

    • Success is simple. Do what’s right, the right way, at the right time. Arnold H. Glasow
    • Do right. Do your best. Treat others as you want to be treated. Lou Holtz
    • I’m sorry, if you were right, I’d agree with you. Robin Williams
    • Integrity is doing the right thing, even when no one is watching. C. S. Lewis
    • If you think you can do a thing or think you can’t do a thing, you’re right. Henry Ford
    • Ethics is knowing the difference between what you have a right to do and what is right to do. Potter Stewart
    • Do the right thing. It will gratify some people and astonish the rest. Mark Twain
    • I am not bound to win, but I am bound to be true. I am not bound to succeed, but I am bound to live by the light that I have. I must stand with anybody that stands right, and stand with him while he is right, and part with him when he goes wrong. Abraham Lincoln
    • “No, no. I trust your judgement. Implicitly. You’re just wrong.” Hy Conrad, Mr. Monk Helps Himself
    • “I don’t get paid to be nice. I get paid to be right.” R.L. Griffin, Seamless
    • “And then I decided to be pro me. Be pro you to the end. No more cutting up myself and serving up myself like pieces of a pie for everyone’s tasteless palates. And that doesn’t mean you don’t know how to say sorry; because being pro you means being pro growth and pro improvement. When I’m wrong, I know I’m wrong and I say that I’m wrong. And that’s how I know I’m right!” C. JoyBell C.
    • “I’m very comfortable being right,” she admitted. “We all are. But sometimes it’s a lonely place.” Susan Mallery, Sweet Trouble
    • The sooner you decide that it is alright to believe the opposite of what the masses do, and that it is alright to trust the universe, and you choose to be happy rather than be right, the sooner you will be happy.” Malti Bhojwani
    • “The four most beautiful words in our common language: I told you so.” Gore Vidal
    • “Don’t fight to be right, but fight when you are right.” Amit Kalantri

    So have a very Happy Everything you do is Right day and celebrate with kindness and fairness to yourself and those around you!

  • Everything You Think is Wrong Day

    everything you think is wrong day 2016March 15 is National Everything You Think is Wrong Day today is a day created to avoid choices because every thought you have is wrong. In contrast tomorrow March 16 is Everything You Do is Right Day, We were unable to find the creator of these days however that does not mean we will not celebrate them Desire and Belief style.

    How to Celebrate Everything You Think is Wrong Day

    To celebrate this day we suggest watching your thoughts, taking each one of them and evaluating the truth of them. The thoughts we think create our reality and if we take a look at the ones we have during the day it can give us all great insight. By questioning the truth of your thoughts you can find a wealth of information:

    Are they thoughts of lack such as “I don’t have enough money”, “I will never get that promotion”, or “I will never find a mate”

    Are they judgmental thoughts such as “That person is ignorant” or “I am not good looking”

    Are they “needy” thoughts such as “I need to lose weight” or “I need that person in my life to be happy?”

    Are they thoughts of sadness such as “I will never be good enough” or “I am always lonely?”

    Are the thoughts you think today that drag you down or thoughts that build you up? By taking just this one day you look carefully at what you are thinking you can gain knowledge that can literally change your life. If you thoughts are negative take a look at your life, is there more negative things or positive things? Do you have an influx of all your desires or does it seem you are always trying but never getting what you want? If you notice more negative in your life, then you have found one way to change that and that is change your thoughts.

    You may have heard of Louise Hay Change Your Thoughts Change Your Life if it is a wonderful book and program that has helped millions. If you have never heard of it is well worth checking out and you can do so on the Louise Hay website.  Now if you are a skeptic that a little change of mind can affect your life in powerful ways, take National Everything you think is wrong day to challenge that. If you think something positive leave it alone but if you think something negative question it, put it to the test, is it true? Is it based on past circumstances that are not true anymore that you are hanging onto?

    Now tomorrow is everything you do it right day and we have some wonderful ideas to celebrate that day so check back tomorrow. As for National Everything You Think is Wrong Day how do you plan to celebrate it? Leave us a comment and let us know!

    Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude. Thomas Jefferson

  • National Get Over it Day

    National Get Over It DayMarch 9th is National Get Over it Day it is a day meant for getting over whatever you have been holding on to. Whether it is a broken relationship, a career or financial issue, family trouble and so today is the day to put away those issues, pains, and struggles that are occupying your thoughts and ruling your emotions for good.

    National Get Over It Day

    Getting over it may sound tough and somethings are much harder than others but when you hold on to something that is bothering you or eating away at you, you only hurt yourself. If you are angry at an ex, they don’t care so all that anger is stuck inside of you gnawing away at your time, your thoughts, and even your health. The Ex is just a simple example but the same can be said for anything you will not release, by keeping in your reality and fueling the pain, you do nothing but hurt your mind body and spirit. To give you a little motivation on how to celebrate this day we have compiled some Get over It Quotes:

    “Healing yourself is connected with healing others.” – Yoko Ono

    “It’s much more interesting to try and understand what binds two people together. Why we stay with each other is much more of a mystery than why we don’t.” – Jane Stanton Hitchcock

    “Don’t dwell on what went wrong. Instead, focus on what to do next. Spend your energies on moving forward toward finding the answer.” – Denis Waitley

    “Some of think that holding on makes us strong, but sometimes it’s letting go.” – Herman Hesse

    “The cigarettes you light one after another won’t help you forget her.”― Frank Sinatra

    “You were many wonderful things to many people before you met him–don’t let this one event define who you are.”― Mary Esselman

    I’ve always taken ‘The Wizard of Oz’ very seriously, you know. I believe in the idea of the rainbow. And I’ve spent my entire life trying to get over it. -Judy Garland

    Your real self – the ‘I am I’ – is master of this land, the ruler of this empire. You rightfully have power and dominion over it, all its inhabitants, and all contained in its realm. – Robert Collier

    It is more fitting for a man to laugh at life than to lament over it. – Lucius Annaeus Seneca

    A stepping-stone can be a stumbling block if we can’t see it until after we have tripped over it. – Cullen Hightower

    There is only one day left, always starting over: it is given to us at dawn and taken away from us at dusk.- Jean-Paul Sartre

    I had insecurities and fears like everybody does, and I got over it. But I was interested in the parts of me that struggled with those things. – Philip Seymour Hoffman

    How to Celebrate National Get Over It day

    There are other productive ways to celebrate this day such as:

    • Getting rid of the reminders
    • Put to mind that everyone is doing the best they can with the knowledge they have at hand
    • Make yourself an image you can hang with the above quotes or other reminders such as “He who angers you, conquers you.”

    Let us know your ideas of how to celebrate this day or any favorite quotes you have we would love to hear them!

  • Can You Have It All In Life

    Can You Have It All In LifeCan You have it all in life, in you have been in the personal growth study for some time this thought may have crossed your mind. When talking about reality, reality is what is held in each individuals mind, since each person’s reality is different than the answer to the question is yes you can have it all but we need to go a bit further on this.

    A perfect relationship, the ideal weight, excellent health and wealth are many things people want and they are in everyone’s reach. When we say that each person’s reality is based on their own beliefs there are a few exceptions so we want to clear those up to be proactive. You may not be able to travel to Pluto or stay underwater for 10 hours with no gear but if your desire it to create a life by design that is let us say physically possible then yes you really can have it all. This may seem a bit funny that we mentioned the above but if you read some of our comments you would understand.

    Can You Have It All In Life

    • Again the answer is yes, but that does not help anyone if they do not know how to have it all in life. Now if you have found this article more than likely you are lacking in some area or perhaps even all areas of your life. If this is the case there are a few things you can do:
    • Look at where your life is in all areas not just one, look at finances, relationships, your personal skills and emotional balance and so on
    • Note which areas are going well and which are not
    • Take note of what you think on a daily basis about the areas that are lack. What are your thoughts, what are you telling yourself?
    • Finally, look back briefly at where the thoughts and negative things you are saying to yourself came from. We say briefly because there is really no need to go back long, the present it what will create the future, but for some getting an idea of where their beliefs came from helps a great deal

    After you have done the above it is time to do a bit of thought and belief reconstruction there are slow ways to do this and quicker ways. For the purpose of this article we will cover the quicker ways that show you how to have it all in life. The quickest way is retraining your brain and one of our favorites are the Neurogym Programs which include Win the Game:

    • Money
    • Weight Loss
    • Fear
    • Having It All

    The first 3 programs come with a full free webinar to explain to you what and how you can have more money, lose weight, and eliminate fear. The Can you have it all in life is a free video series, you can attend all of these complimentary webinars and watch the videos or you can pick and choose to fit your needs. Now if you do not feel the above is what you want to improve or change in your life then you will want to attend the Brainathon 2016 which is also a free webinar offered by Neurogym. This event shows you how your thoughts and past experiences have put you where you are today and how you can change it.

    You can choose a webinar HERE

    You can Watch The Video Series HERE

     

     

  • I Want You to Be Happy Day

    National I Want You To Be Happy DayTomorrow March 3rd is National I want you to be happy day, this day was created to was created for you to go out and make others happy. This is a great personal growth day because it offers you the chance to get outside of yourself and do for others. Many time when we help other people we help ourselves, we have collected some great ways for you to celebrate this day by bringing joy to someones life.

    Ways to Celebrate National I Want You to Be Happy Day

    • Give an honest compliment
    • Send a card or an E-Card
    • Connect with someone who may have limitations such as getting out of the house and pay them a visit or take them to lunch
    • Bring Treats to the office
    • Smile- Often a simply smile can change someone’s day completely
    • Call up that busy parent an offer to babysit
    • Apologize for anything you need to
    • Do something your mate likes to do that you do not
    • Call up that loved one you have not talked to in awhile
    • Ask someone how they are doing – you may notice that many do not ask that simply question anymore
    • Buy the person behind you in line a coffee
    • Share a positive motivational or funny picture on social media
    • Call don’t text, while a text is fine, that call nowadays makes things extra special

    Make Someone Happy Quotes

    “What you do not want done to yourself, do not do to others.” – Confucius

    “Nobody can be uncheered with a balloon” -Winnie the Pooh

    “No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted.”- Aesop

    Since you get more joy out of giving joy to others, you should put a good deal of thought into the happiness that you are able to give.” – Eleanor Roosevelt

    “Let us be grateful to the people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.” – Marcel Proust

    “Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.” -Robert A. Heinlein

    “Some cause happiness wherever they go; others whenever they go” -Oscar Wilde

    “To be kind to all, to like many and love a few, to be needed and wanted by those we love, is certainly the nearest we can come to happiness.” -Mary Stuart

    “Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.” –Buddha

    “If you want happiness for an hour — take a nap.’
    If you want happiness for a day — go fishing.
    If you want happiness for a year — inherit a fortune.
    If you want happiness for a lifetime — help someone else.”- Chinese Proverb

     Taking this day to and make everyone you come in contact happy by doing just a simply something, you will find that by the end of the day you will be filled with so much joy because you spread joy to others. Let us know how you plan to celebrate National I want you to be happy day, leave us a comment or drop us a line!